Leah’s children (29:31-35; 30:17-21). The word “hated” in verse 31 doesn’t imply active abuse on Jacob’s part; it simply means he loved Rachel more than he loved Leah and gave Rachel more attention and affection. (See Deut. 21:15-17 and our Lord’s words in Matt. 6:24 and Luke 14:26.) The fact that Leah bore Jacob six sons and a daughter indicates that he fulfilled his marital duties toward her, but she knew his heart belonged to her sister.
The Lord also knew this, so He blessed Leah with conception. It’s paradoxical that while Jacob was working fourteen years to pay for two wives, only one of those wives was bearing children. Jacob knew that children were a blessing from the Lord (Gen. 30:1-2), for it was God who gave Isaac to Abraham and Sarah and who also gave Jacob and Esau to Isaac and Rebekah (Ps. 139:13-16).
Leah named her firstborn Reuben, which means “see–a son!” In the Hebrew language, the name sounds like “he [God] has seen my affliction.” Since every Jewish father wanted sons (127:4-5), Leah was certain that this baby would cause her husband to love her. However, she was wrong. Simeon means “one who hears” and suggests that Leah had been talking to God about her misery. Years later, Jacob would replace Reuben and Simeon with Joseph’s two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh (Gen. 48:1-6). They were replaced because Reuben was guilty of sexual sin (35:22; 49:3-4; 1 Chron. 5:1-2) and Simeon had participated in the massacre of the Shechemites (Gen. 34:24-31; 49:5-7).
Levi was the name she gave her third son, and it means “attached,” for Leah was still hoping that Jacob would love her for the sons she had borne him. It must have been painful for her to have to give herself to a husband who was only doing his duty and not sharing his affection. But the birth of her fourth son seemed to bring a new joy to her life, for she called him Judah, which comes from the Hebrew word meaning “praise.” Instead of complaining to the Lord about her unresponsive husband, she was now praising the Lord for His blessings. “This time I will praise the Lord” (29:35 niv).
After a period of barrenness, Leah was enabled by God to bear two more sons: Issachar, which means “reward, wages” and Zebulon, which probably means “honor” (30:14-21). In those days, the fruit of the mandrake plant was called a “love apple” and was considered to be a powerful love potion. When Rachel saw Reuben’s mandrakes, she wanted them for her own use and was willing to give Leah a night with Jacob as “payment” for the plants. Perhaps Rachel thought that by eating the mandrake fruit she would become fertile.
We see in this episode another evidence of Jacob’s spiritual growth, for not only did Laban tell him what to do, but also Jacob’s own wives made agreements that he knew nothing about until he came home weary from caring for the flocks. Rachel and Leah treated Jacob like a servant and used him as a pawn in their family bargaining, and he patiently bore with it.