Sirach 18:17-19

Good News Translation

¹⁷ Yes, kind words are more effective than the best of gifts, and if you are really concerned, you will give both. ¹⁸ It is stupid to be unkind and insulting. No one's eyes are going to sparkle at a gift that you resent giving.

Self-examination

¹⁹ Know what you are talking about before you speak, and give attention to your health before you get sick.