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25 These words, too, are proverbs of King Solomon, words which Hezekiah, king of Judah, later told his scribes to record for posterity:

God’s glory is shown when He conceals things;
    a king’s glory is shown in his ability to explore the facts of the matter.
As the heights of heaven and the depths of earth are beyond comprehension,
    so are the hearts of kings.

Take away the impurities from the silver,
    and a good smith can create something of value;
Take away the wicked from among the king’s advisors,
    and his reign will be established with integrity.

Do not claim to be important in the presence of the king
    or vie for a position within the company of great men.
Truly, it is far sweeter to have someone of influence say to you, “Come up here and join us,
    than to be ordered to some lower rank in front of a noble.
Just because you think you have seen something
    doesn’t mean you should be quick to go to court,
For what will you do
    when your neighbor disproves the charge and embarrasses you?
Instead, discuss the matter directly with your neighbor,
    but in doing so, remember never to reveal another person’s secrets;
10 For if you do, someone who hears you could disgrace you,
    and a bad reputation will cling to you ever afterward.

11 A well-spoken word at just the right moment
    is like golden apples in settings of silver.
12 To an attentive ear, constructive criticism from a truly wise person
    is like an earring or jewelry made of fine gold.

13 Like a cooling snow that breaks the heat of a harvest day,
    so is the messenger who is faithful to those who sent him,
    for he refreshes the soul of his masters.

14 Like clouds and wind that bring no rain,
    so is one who boasts of gifts promised but never delivered.

15 Patience can soften up a leader,
    and a tender tongue can break even bone.

16 When you find honey, remember to eat only what you need,
    because if you eat in excess, you may be sick and lose all of it.
17 Don’t visit your neighbor too often,
    or he will become tired of you and grow to hate you.

18 Like a maul and a sword and a sharp arrow all in one,
    so is anyone who bears false witness against a neighbor.

19 Like a tooth that is rotten or a foot that is unsteady,
    so is relying on a person who can’t be trusted in times of trouble.

20 Like a man who undresses in winter
    or a woman who pours vinegar on a wound,[a]
So is anyone who tries to sing happy songs
    to a sorrowful heart.

21 If your enemy is hungry, give him something to eat;
    if he is thirsty, give him something to drink,
22 For your kind treatment will be like heaping hot coals on his head,[b]
    it may cause a change in heart,
    and the Eternal will repay you.

Acts of kindness, especially when we know they are undeserved, awaken a slumbering conscience, stimulate sorrow, and perhaps even effect a change. They are the best ways to turn an enemy into a friend.

23 As surely as a north wind drives the rain before it,
    a backbiting tongue brings angry looks.

24 It is better to dwell outside on the corner of your roof
    than to live inside your house with a badgering wife.

25 Like cool water to a weary soul,
    so is good news from a distant country.

26 Like a muddy spring or a polluted fountain,
    so is a righteous person who gives in to the wicked.

27 Eating too much honey is not good for you,
    nor is it good to seek one honor after another.

28 Like a conquered city with no walls,
    so is a man who has no self-control.

Footnotes

  1. 25:20 Hebrew text is uncertain, literally “soda”; Greek, “wound.”
  2. 25:22 Romans 12:20

More of Solomon's Wise Sayings

25 Here are some more
    of Solomon's proverbs.
They were copied by the officials
    of King Hezekiah of Judah.
God is praised
    for being mysterious;
rulers are praised
    for explaining mysteries.
Who can fully understand
    the thoughts of a ruler?
They reach beyond the sky
    and go deep in the earth.

Silver must be purified
before it can be used
    to make something of value.
Evil people must be removed
before anyone can rule
    with justice.

(A) Don't try to seem important
    in the court of a ruler.
It's better for the ruler
    to give you a high position
than for you to be embarrassed
    in front of royal officials.
Be sure you are right
    before you sue someone,
or you might lose your case
    and be embarrassed.

When you and someone else
can't get along,
    don't gossip about it.[a]
10 Others will find out,
and your reputation
    will then be ruined.

11 The right word
    at the right time
is like precious gold
    set in silver.
12 Listening to good advice
is worth much more
    than jewelry made of gold.
13 A messenger you can trust
is just as refreshing
    as cool water in summer.
14 Broken promises
are worse than rain clouds
    that don't bring rain.
15 Patience and gentle talk
can convince a ruler
    and overcome any problem.

16 Eating too much honey
    can make you sick.
17 Don't visit friends too often,
or they will get tired of it
    and start hating you.
18 Telling lies about friends
    is like attacking them
with clubs and swords
    and sharp arrows.
19 A friend you can't trust
    in times of trouble
is like having a toothache
    or a sore foot.
20 Singing to someone
    in deep sorrow
is like pouring vinegar
    in an open cut.[b]

21 (B) If your enemies are hungry,
    give them something to eat.
And if they are thirsty,
give them something
    to drink.
22 This will be the same
as piling burning coals
    on their heads.
And the Lord
    will reward you.
23 As surely as rain blows in
    from the north,
anger is caused
    by cruel words.
24 It's better to stay outside
    on the roof of your house
than to live inside
    with a nagging wife.

25 Good news from far away
refreshes like cold water
    when you are thirsty.
26 When a good person gives in
    to the wicked,
it's like dumping garbage
    in a stream of clear water.
27 Don't eat too much honey
    or always want praise.[c]
28 Losing self-control
leaves you as helpless
    as a city without a wall.

Footnotes

  1. 25.9 When … it: Or “Settle a problem privately between you and your neighbor and don't involve others.”
  2. 25.20 cut: One possible meaning for the difficult Hebrew text of verse 20.
  3. 25.27 or … praise: One possible meaning for the difficult Hebrew text.