2 Samuel 19:4-6

Lexham English Bible

⁴ and because the king had covered his face and cried with a loud voice, “My son, Absalom, Absalom, my son, my son.”

⁵ Then Joab came to the king’s house and said, “Today you have humiliated the faces of all of your servants who have saved your life this day, and the life of your sons and your daughters, the life of your wives, and the life of your concubines, ⁶ by loving those who hate you and hating those who love you. Indeed, you have made clear this day that you have no regard for your commanders or officers, for I have realized today that were Absalom alive, and all of us were dead, then that would have been right in your eyes!