1 Timothy 5:4-6

New Century Version

⁴ But if a widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to do their duty to their own family and to repay their parents or grandparents. That pleases God. ⁵ The true widow, who is all alone, puts her hope in God and continues to pray night and day for God’s help. ⁶ But the widow who uses her life to please herself is really dead while she is alive.