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Advice for Those Who Are Married

Now I want to deal with the things you wrote me about. Some of you say, “It is good for a man not to sleep with a woman.” But since sexual sin is happening, each man should sleep with his own wife. And each woman should sleep with her own husband. A husband should satisfy his wife’s needs. And a wife should satisfy her husband’s needs. The wife’s body does not belong only to her. It also belongs to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong only to him. It also belongs to his wife. You shouldn’t stop giving yourselves to each other. You might possibly do this when you both agree to it. And you should only agree to it to give yourselves time to pray. Then you should come together again. In that way, Satan will not tempt you when you can’t control yourselves. I say those things to you as my advice, not as a command. I wish all of you were single like me. But you each have your own gift from God. One has this gift, and another has that one.

I speak now to those who are not married. I also speak to widows. It is good for you to stay single like me. But if you can’t control yourselves, you should get married. It is better to get married than to burn with desire.

10 I give a command to those who are married. It is a direct command from the Lord, not from me. A wife must not leave her husband. 11 But if she does, she must not get married again. Or she can go back to her husband. And a husband must not divorce his wife.

12 I also have something to say to everyone else. It is from me, not a direct command from the Lord. Suppose a brother has a wife who is not a believer. If she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And suppose a woman has a husband who is not a believer. If he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him. 14 The unbelieving husband has been made holy through his wife. The unbelieving wife has been made holy through her believing husband. If that were not the case, your children would not be pure and “clean.” But as it is, they are holy.

15 But if the unbeliever leaves, let that person go. In that case, the believer does not have to stay married to the unbeliever. God wants us to live in peace. 16 Wife, how do you know if you will save your husband? Husband, how do you know if you will save your wife?

Stay as You Were When God Chose You

17 But each believer should live in whatever situation the Lord has given them. Stay as you were when God chose you. That’s the rule all the churches must follow. 18 Was a man already circumcised when God chose him? Then he should not become uncircumcised. Was he uncircumcised when God chose him? Then he should not be circumcised. 19 Being circumcised means nothing. Being uncircumcised means nothing. Doing what God commands is what counts. 20 Each of you should stay as you were when God chose you.

21 Were you a slave when God chose you? Don’t let it trouble you. But if you can get your master to set you free, do it. 22 The person who was a slave when the Lord chose them is now the Lord’s free person. The one who was free when God chose them is now a slave of Christ. 23 Christ has paid the price for you. Don’t become slaves of human beings. 24 Brothers and sisters, each person is accountable to God. So each person should stay as they were when God chose them.

Advice for Those Who Are Not Married

25 Now I want to say something about virgins. I have no direct command from the Lord. But I give my opinion. Because of the Lord’s mercy, I give it as one who can be trusted. 26 Times are hard for you right now. So I think it’s good for a man to stay as he is. 27 Are you engaged to a woman? Then don’t try to get out of it. Are you free from such a promise? Then don’t look for a wife. 28 But if you do marry someone, you have not sinned. And if a virgin marries someone, she has not sinned. But those who marry someone will have many troubles in this life. I want to save you from this.

29 Brothers and sisters, what I mean is that the time is short. From now on, those who have a husband or wife should live as if they did not. 30 Those who mourn should live as if they did not. Those who are happy should live as if they were not. Those who buy something should live as if it were not theirs to keep. 31 Those who use the things of the world should not become all wrapped up in them. The world as it now exists is passing away.

32 I don’t want you to have anything to worry about. A single man is concerned about the Lord’s matters. He wants to know how he can please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the matters of this world. He wants to know how he can please his wife. 34 His concerns pull him in two directions. A single woman or a virgin is concerned about the Lord’s matters. She wants to serve the Lord with both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the matters of this world. She wants to know how she can please her husband. 35 I’m saying those things for your own good. I’m not trying to hold you back. I want you to be free to live in a way that is right. I want you to give yourselves completely to the Lord.

36 Suppose someone is worried that he is not acting with honor toward the virgin he has promised to marry. Suppose his desires are too strong, and he feels that he should marry her. He should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married. 37 But suppose the man has decided not to marry the virgin. And suppose he has no compelling need to get married and can control himself. If he has made up his mind not to get married, he also does the right thing. 38 So then, the man who marries the virgin does the right thing. But the man who doesn’t marry her does a better thing.

39 A woman has to stay married to her husband as long as he lives. If he dies, she is free to marry anyone she wants to. But the one she marries must belong to the Lord. 40 In my opinion, she is happier if she stays single. And I also think that I am led by the Spirit of God in saying this.

Respuestas acerca del matrimonio

En cuanto a las cosas de que me escribisteis, bueno es para el hombre(A) no tocar mujer. No obstante, por razón de las inmoralidades, que cada uno tenga su propia mujer, y cada una tenga su propio marido. Que el marido cumpla su deber para con su mujer, e igualmente la mujer lo cumpla con el marido. La mujer no tiene autoridad sobre su propio cuerpo, sino el marido. Y asimismo el marido no tiene autoridad sobre su propio cuerpo, sino la mujer. No os privéis el uno del otro(B), excepto de común acuerdo y por cierto[a] tiempo, para dedicaros a la oración; volved después a juntaros[b] a fin de que Satanás(C) no os tiente por causa de vuestra falta de dominio propio. Mas esto digo por vía de concesión, no como una orden(D). Sin embargo[c], yo desearía que todos los hombres fueran como yo(E). No obstante, cada cual ha recibido[d] de Dios su propio don(F), uno de una manera y otro de otra.

A los solteros y a las viudas digo que es bueno para ellos(G) si se quedan como yo(H). Pero si carecen de dominio propio, cásense(I); que mejor es casarse que quemarse. 10 A los casados instruyo, no yo, sino el Señor(J): que la mujer no debe dejar al[e] marido 11 (pero si lo deja, quédese sin casar, o de lo contrario que se reconcilie con su marido), y que el marido no abandone a su mujer. 12 Pero a los demás digo yo, no el Señor(K), que si un hermano tiene una mujer que no es creyente, y ella consiente en vivir con él, no la abandone. 13 Y la mujer cuyo marido no es creyente, y él consiente en vivir con ella, no abandone a su marido. 14 Porque el marido que no es creyente es santificado por medio de su mujer; y la mujer que no es creyente es santificada por medio de su marido creyente[f]; de otra manera vuestros hijos serían inmundos, mas ahora son santos(L). 15 Sin embargo, si el que no es creyente se separa, que se separe; en tales casos el hermano o la hermana no están obligados[g], sino que Dios nos[h] ha llamado para vivir en paz(M). 16 Pues ¿cómo sabes tú, mujer, si salvarás a tu marido? ¿O cómo sabes tú, marido, si salvarás a tu mujer(N)?

Andad en la voluntad de Dios

17 Fuera de esto[i], según el Señor ha asignado a cada uno(O), según Dios llamó a cada cual, así ande. Y esto ordeno en todas las iglesias(P). 18 ¿Fue llamado alguno ya circuncidado? Quédese circuncidado[j]. ¿Fue llamado alguno estando incircuncidado[k]? No se circuncide(Q). 19 La circuncisión nada es, y nada es la incircuncisión(R), sino el guardar los mandamientos de Dios(S). 20 Cada uno permanezca en la condición[l] en que fue llamado(T). 21 ¿Fuiste llamado siendo esclavo? No te preocupes; aunque si puedes obtener tu libertad[m], prefiérelo[n]. 22 Porque el que fue llamado por[o] el Señor siendo esclavo, liberto es del Señor(U); de la misma manera, el que fue llamado siendo libre, esclavo es de Cristo(V). 23 Comprados fuisteis por precio(W); no os hagáis esclavos de los hombres. 24 Hermanos, cada uno permanezca con Dios en la condición[p] en que fue llamado(X).

Sobre casarse o no casarse

25 En cuanto a las doncellas[q] no tengo mandamiento del Señor(Y), pero doy mi opinión como el que habiendo recibido la misericordia del Señor(Z) es digno de confianza. 26 Creo, pues, que esto es bueno en vista de la presente[r] aflicción(AA); es decir, que es bueno que el hombre(AB) se quede como está[s]. 27 ¿Estás unido[t] a mujer? No procures separarte[u]. ¿Estás libre de mujer? No busques mujer. 28 Pero si te casas, no has pecado; y si una doncella se casa, no ha pecado. Sin embargo, ellos[v] tendrán problemas en esta vida[w], y yo os los quiero evitar. 29 Mas esto digo, hermanos: el tiempo ha sido acortado(AC); de modo que de ahora en adelante los que tienen mujer sean como si no la tuvieran; 30 y los que lloran, como si no lloraran; y los que se regocijan, como si no se regocijaran; y los que compran, como si no tuvieran nada; 31 y los que aprovechan el mundo, como si no lo aprovecharan plenamente(AD); porque la apariencia de este mundo es pasajera(AE). 32 Mas quiero que estéis libres de preocupación. El soltero se preocupa por las cosas del Señor, cómo puede agradar al Señor(AF); 33 pero el casado se preocupa por las cosas del mundo, de cómo agradar a su mujer, 34 y sus intereses están divididos. Y la mujer que no está casada y la doncella se preocupan[x] por las cosas del Señor, para ser santas tanto en cuerpo como en espíritu; pero la casada se preocupa por las cosas del mundo, de cómo agradar a su marido. 35 Y esto digo para vuestro propio beneficio; no para poneros restricción, sino para promover lo que es honesto y para asegurar vuestra constante devoción al Señor.

36 Pero si alguno cree que no está obrando correctamente con respecto a su hija virgen, si ella es de edad madura, y si es necesario que así se haga, que haga lo que quiera, no peca; que se case[y]. 37 Pero el que está firme en su corazón, y sin presión alguna[z], y tiene control sobre[aa] su propia voluntad, y ha decidido en su corazón conservar soltera[ab] a su hija, bien hará. 38 Así los dos, el que da en matrimonio a su hija virgen, hace bien; y el que no la da en matrimonio, hace mejor.

39 La mujer está ligada mientras el marido vive; pero si el marido muere[ac], está en libertad(AG) de casarse con quien desee, solo que en el Señor(AH). 40 Pero en mi opinión(AI), será más feliz si se queda como está; y creo que yo también tengo el Espíritu de Dios.

Footnotes

  1. 1 Corintios 7:5 Lit., un
  2. 1 Corintios 7:5 Lit., estad juntos
  3. 1 Corintios 7:7 Algunos mss. antiguos dicen: Porque
  4. 1 Corintios 7:7 Lit., tiene
  5. 1 Corintios 7:10 Lit., separarse del
  6. 1 Corintios 7:14 Lit., del hermano
  7. 1 Corintios 7:15 Lit., sujetos a servidumbre
  8. 1 Corintios 7:15 Algunos mss. antiguos dicen: os
  9. 1 Corintios 7:17 Lit., Solamente
  10. 1 Corintios 7:18 Lit., No se haga incircunciso
  11. 1 Corintios 7:18 Lit., en incircuncisión
  12. 1 Corintios 7:20 Lit., el llamamiento
  13. 1 Corintios 7:21 Lit., también hacerte libre
  14. 1 Corintios 7:21 Lit., más bien aprovéchate de ello
  15. 1 Corintios 7:22 Lit., en
  16. 1 Corintios 7:24 Lit., en esto
  17. 1 Corintios 7:25 O, vírgenes
  18. 1 Corintios 7:26 O, inminente
  19. 1 Corintios 7:26 Lit., sea
  20. 1 Corintios 7:27 Lit., atado
  21. 1 Corintios 7:27 Lit., ser libertado
  22. 1 Corintios 7:28 Lit., los tales
  23. 1 Corintios 7:28 Lit., tribulaciones en la carne
  24. 1 Corintios 7:34 Algunos mss. dicen: Hay asimismo diferencia entre la casada y la doncella. La doncella se preocupa
  25. 1 Corintios 7:36 Lit., que se casen
  26. 1 Corintios 7:37 O, no teniendo necesidad
  27. 1 Corintios 7:37 Lit., en cuanto a
  28. 1 Corintios 7:37 O, virgen
  29. 1 Corintios 7:39 Lit., duerme

Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.

Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.

The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.

Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I.

But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.

10 And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:

11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.

13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.

14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.

15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.

16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?

17 But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called every one, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches.

18 Is any man called being circumcised? let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? let him not be circumcised.

19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God.

20 Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called.

21 Art thou called being a servant? care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather.

22 For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant, is the Lord's freeman: likewise also he that is called, being free, is Christ's servant.

23 Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men.

24 Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God.

25 Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful.

26 I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man so to be.

27 Art thou bound unto a wife? seek not to be loosed. Art thou loosed from a wife? seek not a wife.

28 But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.

29 But this I say, brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had none;

30 And they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they that buy, as though they possessed not;

31 And they that use this world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.

32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:

33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.

34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.

37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well.

38 So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.

39 The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.

40 But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.