¹⁸ It is good for someone to try to please other people if they really want to help them. That is true all the time, not only when I am there with you. ¹⁹ My children, I feel like a mother who is giving birth to you again. I will continue to feel that kind of pain until you become more completely like Christ. ²⁰ I want very much to be there with you now. Then I would know better how to speak to you. As it is, I do not know what to think about you.