By Christopher Reese
On Valentine’s Day and throughout the year, our thoughts turn to romantic love, chocolates, and special meal celebrations. Romantic love is a wonderful gift from God. God created us male and female, gave us feelings of attraction for the opposite sex, and instituted marriage for the benefit of both men and women (Genesis 2:21-24). In fact, an entire book of the Bible, Song of Songs, celebrates romantic love, marriage, and marital intimacy.

Beyond Valentine’s Day, “love” is a word that’s nearly ubiquitous in our culture. Pop artists sing about it, celebrities post about it on social media, and Hollywood tells stories around it. Yet, in most cases, the kind of “love” in view boils down to feelings of warmth or excitement or satisfaction. Once the sentiments are gone, so is the love. In fact, this version of love is mostly self-serving, looking to others to meet one’s needs or desires, and often moving on when this ceases to be the case. The Christian leader Bernard of Clairvaux observed centuries ago, “Human nature is weak and therefore compelled to love itself and serve itself first.”1
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