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19 Better to be poor and live with integrity
    than a fool with a foul mouth.
Surely there’s no advantage for a person without knowledge,
    and whoever moves too quickly misses the turn.
Foolishness diverts the course of life,
    yet the heart rebels against the Eternal.
Wealth attracts many friends,
    but the poor are soon separated from theirs.
A false witness will not escape punishment,
    and one who breathes lies will not go free.
Many try to win the favor of a generous person,
    and everyone is a friend to someone who gives gifts.
If a poor man is hated by his relatives,
    it is even more likely his friends will avoid him too!
Anyone who is calling after them
    [is not to be found].[a]
Whoever gains a wise heart loves his own soul,
    and whoever preserves understanding experiences true goodness.
A false witness will not escape punishment,
    and whoever breathes lies will not survive.
10 Something is wrong when a fool lives a pampered life,
    but it is much worse when a slave takes charge of princes.
11 A person with discretion is not easily angered;
    he gains respect by overlooking an offense.
12 A king’s rage is like the thunderous roar of a lion,
    but his favor is like a cooling mist upon the grass.
13 Foolish children bring misery to their fathers,
    and a wife’s bickering is a constant dripping as from a leaky roof.
14 Houses and riches may be inherited from parents,
    but a sensible wife is a gift from the Eternal.
15 Laziness lulls people into a deep sleep;
    a slacker will have nothing to eat.
16 Whoever keeps God’s commands lengthens his life,
    but a careless lifestyle ends in death.
17 Whoever cares for the poor makes a loan to the Eternal;
    such kindness will be repaid in full and with interest.
18 Discipline your children while there is still hope of influencing their future,
    so as not to play a part in their destruction.
19 A hot-tempered man will pay a penalty;
    if you bail him out, it will not be the last time; the cycle will repeat.
20 Heed counsel, act on instruction,
    and you will become wise later in life.
21 The impulses of the human heart may run wild,
    but the Eternal’s plan will prevail.
22 Loyalty is a trait admired in others,
    and being destitute is better than being a liar.
23 Reverence for the Eternal leads to a fulfilled life;
    those who have it will sleep well,
    for disaster will not touch them.
24 Some people are so lazy—they reach for food on the plate
    but lack the will to bring it up to their mouths.
25 If you beat one who mocks, the naive will see and learn a lesson;
    if you correct someone with understanding, that’s all he needs to grow a little wiser.
26 Children who mistreat their father and run down their mother
    are a root of shame and disgrace.
27 My child, should you stop listening to instruction,
    you will wander from the voice of knowledge.
28 A worthless witness ridicules justice,
    and the mouth of the wrongdoer savors every morsel of trouble.
29 Severe penalties are prepared for those who mock,
    and fools expect their backs to be flogged.

20 Too much wine begins to mock you,
    too much strong drink leads to noisy fights,
    and whoever is misled by either is not wise.
A king’s wrath strikes fear like a lion’s roar;
    those who provoke him to anger sentence themselves to death.
Honor is due those who refuse to fight at the drop of a hat,
    but every fool jumps at an opportunity to quarrel.
A slacker procrastinates when it is time to plow;
    so when it’s time for harvest, there are no crops in the field.
The real motives come from deep within a person—as from deep waters—
    but a discerning person is able to draw them up and expose them.
Most people claim to be loyal,
    but can anyone find a trustworthy person?
The right-living act with integrity;
    the children who follow their example are happy.
When a king sits on his throne as judge,
    he ferrets out all evil and scatters it with his royal stare.
Who can say, “I have cleaned my heart”?
    or who can proclaim, “I am purified from sin”?
10 False weights and differing measures are alike:
    both are disgusting to the Eternal.
11 Youth reveal their true natures by their actions
    whether they do what is pure and right or not.
12 Ears to listen, eyes to see—
    the Eternal designed them both.
13 Do not fall in love with sleep, or you will awake a poor person.
    Stay awake, get to work, and you will have more than enough food.
14 “Bad quality for a bad price,” bargains the buyer;
    but then he runs off with his prize in tow, bragging, “What a steal!”
15 Gold and rubies abound,
    but lips that utter knowledge are a rare jewel.
16 If someone guarantees a stranger’s debt, hold his garment as collateral;
    if that stranger is a foreigner, hold the creditor responsible.
17 At first the bread of lies tastes sweet
    until guilt reduces it to gravel in the mouth.
18 Plans are finalized on the basis of good counsel,
    so only go to war when you have wise instructions.
19 A gossip will reveal your secrets!
    So avoid the company of people who talk openly and foolishly.
20 If someone pronounces a curse on his parents,[b]
    the lamp of his life will be snuffed out as complete darkness creeps in.
21 An inheritance acquired hastily at first
    will end up not being blessed after all.
22 Do not say, “I will get even for this evil.”
    Wait for the Eternal; He will defend you.
23 He despises dishonesty in business;
    false weights and deceptive scales are wrong.
24 Every one of our steps is directed by Him;
    so how can we attempt to figure out our own way?
25 Those who rashly dedicate something to God are trapped;
    only afterward do they realize what they’ve promised.
26 A wise king weeds out the wrongdoers,
    then drives over them with his threshing wheel of justice.
27 The lamp of the Eternal illuminates the human spirit,
    searching our most intimate thoughts.
28 Loyal love and faithfulness safeguard the king;
    his throne is perpetuated through loyal love.
29 The best asset of youth is the strength of the body,
    but the beauty of age is gray hair.
30 Severe punishment scrubs away evil,
    and tough blows scour the innermost parts.

21 The king’s heart is like a channel of water directed by the Eternal:
    He chooses which way He bends it.
Everyone may think his own way of living is right,
    but the Eternal examines our hearts.
To do what is right and to seek justice—
    these please Him more than sacrifice.
The lamp of the wicked lights his way;
    a proud look, an arrogant heart—all sin.
A well-thought-out plan will work to your advantage,
    but hasty actions will cost you dearly.
The fortune made by a swindler
    is a fast-burning fog and a recipe for death.
Wicked people will be swept up in their own violence
    because they refuse to seek justice.
Dishonest people walk along the crooked path they have made,
    but the innocent travel the straight course they have laid.
It is better to dwell outside on the corner of your roof
    than to live inside your house with a badgering wife.
10 Wicked people delight in doing bad things;
    their neighbors never see even a hint of compassion.
11 A naive person wises up when he sees a mocker punished.
    A wise person becomes even wiser just by being instructed.
12 The right-living understands how evildoers operate;
    he subverts them and ruins their plans.
13 If you ignore the groans of the poor,
    one day your own cries for help will go unanswered.
14 A gift given in secret soothes anger,
    and a present offered privately calms fierce rage.
15 When justice is done, those who are in the right celebrate,
    but those who make trouble are terrified.
16 People who wander from the way of wise living
    will lie down in the company of corpses.
17 Those who live to party, who pursue pleasure, will end up penniless;
    those who enjoy lots of wine and rich food will never have money.
18 The wicked become a ransom for those who live right,
    and the faithless pay the penalty for their treachery against the upright.
19 You would be better off living in the middle of the desert
    than with an angry and argumentative wife.
20 The wise have a generous supply of fine food and oil in their homes,
    but fools are wasteful, consuming every last drop.
21 Whoever pursues justice and treats others with kindness
    discovers true life marked by integrity and respect.
22 One wise person can rise against a city of mighty men
    and cause the citadel they trust to collapse.
23 Guard your words, mind what you say,
    and you will keep yourself out of trouble.
24 The name “mocker” applies to one who is proud and pompous
    because he is defiantly arrogant.
25 What slackers crave will surely kill them
    because they refuse to work.
26 All day, every day the greedy want more,
    while those who live right give generously.
27 The offerings of wrongdoers are despicable to God;
    it’s even worse when they bring them with evil motives.
28 The testimony of a false witness is eventually impeached,
    but the person who truly listens will have the last word.
29 The wicked wears a defiant face,
    but the right-living plans his path.
30 No one is wise enough or smart enough,
    and no plan is good enough to stand up to the Eternal.
31 No matter how well you arm for battle,
    victory is determined by Him.

Footnotes

  1. 19:7 Meaning of the Hebrew is uncertain.
  2. 20:20 Exodus 21:7; Leviticus 20:9

The most important partnership in life is marriage. There are other kinds of union, but the union of husband and wife transcends any other. God created sexual intimacy as a unique gift to marriage. Its purpose goes beyond pleasure and procreation. As a man and a woman join their bodies together, the Spirit does a unique work of binding these two individuals as one person. But the involvement of the Spirit is not possible when a believer is intimate with a nonbeliever. They are not filled with the same Spirit and cannot experience the fullness God intends. Paul’s instructions are practical, simple, and clear.

Because we have these promises, dearly loved ones, out of respect for God we should scour the filth from our flesh and spirit and move toward perfect beauty and holiness.

Take us into your hearts; love us as we love you. You have nothing to fear. We have hurt no one, ruined no one, swindled no one. I am not writing these things to condemn you, as I said before. Our hearts embrace you, so we stand beside you whether facing life or death. I am completely confident and incredibly proud of you. Even in all this turbulence I am at peace—I am overflowing with joy.

When we came into Macedonia, we were completely worn out—under attack from every angle—nagging opposition on the outside, our own nagging fears from the inside. But God, who comforts the downcast, brought us comfort when Titus arrived from Corinth. We were relieved, not just to see him, but because he told us how he was encouraged to learn about your longing, your grieving, and your continued enthusiasm for me. So these were all more reasons for me to rejoice!

Jesus said blessings come out of mourning (Matthew 5:4). The very thought is ridiculous to some; but from Paul’s perspective, God uses weaknesses and is present in pain. This truth is revolutionary. In the midst of suffering, the mourner abandons pretense and self-consciousness. There we meet God and one another in honest ways that open the doors to redemption when we are willing.

God chose a people for Himself—a people that make up a body, bound together in a covenant. The forces of this world seek to divide and isolate, but God seeks to unite and reconcile. We must all learn to serve one another and hold our self-interests in abeyance to find a greater good in community.

The believers in Corinth were struggling to find unity and harmony in their local church. Some were living selfishly by eating all the food at their common meals or emphasizing issues that create division in the community. For Paul it was not enough that they learn to live well with one another, although that was important. They had to know they were part of a larger body—they belonged to the churches in Jerusalem, Ephesus, Philippi, and the new frontier of Christianity. We are also part of a global church. What would happen if the church would begin to live this simple truth and generously share all it has with our brothers and sisters across the globe?

I knew you would be upset with my last letter, but I do not regret sending it. If there were times I did have second thoughts, it was because I could see that the letter did hurt you, even if only for a while. Now I am glad—not because it caused you grief but because you were moved to make a permanent change[a] that can happen only with the realization that your actions have gone against God—I’m glad to know you suffered no long-term loss because of what we did. 10 Now this type of deep sorrow, godly sorrow, is not so much about regret; but it is about producing a change of mind and behavior[b] that ultimately leads to salvation. But the other type of sorrow, worldly sorrow, often is fleeting and only brings death. 11 Look at what is happening among you! Notice how authentic and diligent you have become because this godly sorrow has been at work in your community. But there’s more: your desire to clear your name, your righteous anger, your respect, your longing, your zeal, and your concern for justice. All these demonstrate how you have been made clean. 12 So when I wrote my last difficult letter, it was not to comfort the victim or confront the perpetrator—it was to stir up your sincere devotion for us under God’s watchful eye. 13 In the midst of all that has happened, though it has been difficult, we are comforted and encouraged. When we saw the relief and joy on Titus’s face, we celebrated even more because his spirit had been totally refreshed by you. 14 Now if I have bragged in the past about you to Titus, I have nothing to be ashamed of. Just as we’ve spoken the whole truth to you, I’m glad to know that our boasts to Titus about you have proven true as well. 15 His love for you overflows even more as he recalls your obedience and how you respectfully and somewhat nervously, with fear and trembling, took him in. 16 I have great joy now because I have great confidence in you.

Footnotes

  1. 7:9 Literally, repent
  2. 7:10 Literally, repentance

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